But lately, that same kind of schedule is starting to feel very different.

Instead of energizing, it feels draining. Instead of fulfilling, it feels overwhelming. And more moms are quietly reaching the same realization: the constant pressure to stay busy isn’t adding to their lives, it’s taking away from them.

This shift doesn’t usually happen overnight. It builds slowly, almost in the background. You start noticing that your days feel rushed from the moment they begin. You look ahead at your week and feel a sense of exhaustion before anything has even happened. Plans that once sounded enjoyable now feel like obligations you have to get through rather than experiences you’re looking forward to.

At some point, a simple but important question starts to surface: Do I actually want to be this busy?

For many moms, the honest answer is no.

Part of the reason this is happening now is because life has become more layered than it used to be. Between work responsibilities, managing a household, maintaining relationships, and keeping up with the invisible mental load that comes with it all, there is very little true downtime left. Even moments that look like rest on the outside are often filled with planning, thinking, and mentally organizing what comes next.

Over time, that constant state of motion starts to wear on you.

What’s interesting is that stepping back doesn’t require a dramatic life overhaul. In most cases, it starts with small changes. Saying no to something that you would have automatically agreed to before. Leaving a night open on purpose instead of filling it. Allowing yourself to not have plans without feeling like you should justify it.

At first, it can feel uncomfortable. There’s often a sense of guilt that comes with not participating or not showing up in the same way you used to. Many moms have been conditioned to equate busyness with value, so choosing less can feel like you’re doing something wrong.

But that feeling doesn’t last.

What begins to replace it is a sense of relief that’s hard to ignore. When your schedule isn’t packed, you move through your day differently. You’re not rushing from one thing to the next. You’re more present in the moments you do choose to engage in. You have space to think, to rest, and to exist without constantly anticipating what’s coming next.

It becomes clear that there is a difference between having a full life and having a full calendar.

For a long time, those two things have been treated as if they are the same. But they aren’t. A full calendar can easily become a list of obligations, while a full life is built around experiences that actually feel meaningful and enjoyable.

This is where priorities begin to shift.

Instead of automatically saying yes, more moms are starting to ask themselves whether something truly fits into their lives in a way that feels good. Instead of trying to do everything, they are becoming more intentional about what they choose to do.

That might mean fewer plans, but better ones. It might mean protecting time at home. It might mean allowing space in the day that doesn’t have a specific purpose attached to it.

None of this is about doing nothing. It’s about no longer feeling the need to do everything.

The idea that you have to be constantly busy in order to be productive or fulfilled is slowly losing its hold. Moms are recognizing that rest is not something that needs to be earned, and that time does not need to be filled in order to be valuable.

In many ways, this shift is less about doing less and more about living differently.

Choosing to step back from an overbooked life isn’t a sign of falling behind. If anything, it reflects a clearer understanding of what actually matters. It’s a decision to stop measuring life by how much fits into a schedule and start paying attention to how that life actually feels.

And for a growing number of moms, that feeling matters more than a full calendar ever did.

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Tsoji handmade Soaps: Eastern Botanicals for Gentle, Non-Drying Cleansing

Tsoji handmade, cold-process soaps blend time-honored Eastern botanicals like moongrass, tea tree oil, and ginseng, natural, gentle care to help your skin become healthier with every use. $12.98

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At the end of the day, self-care doesn’t have to mean a full spa day or an hour long routine, it can be as simple as choosing products that support your skin, your body, and your confidence in a way that fits your life. The best routines are the ones you’ll actually stick to, and that means finding solutions that are effective, easy to use, and designed with real women in mind.

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Athletic wear, and more specifically athleisure wear, has seen a significant rise in popularity in recent years. Young people have always been drawn to comfortable clothes, but when moms decided to take on the trend, the popularity reached new heights.

Whether you’re a mom who lives in leggings or one that believes they don’t qualify as real pants, you probably appreciate the ease and freedom a comfortable garment provides. These three pieces of clothing aren’t exclusively athletic wear; they can take you from the office to the gym to a restaurant. The best part: no one at dinner will guess that those amazing black pants worked up a sweat in Soul Cycle!

 1.  Nudy Patooty Short Sleeve Undershirt for Women

An unfortunate but true fact: ladies sweat. But breaking a sweat doesn’t have to make you smell or ruin your clothes. Nudy Patooty offers a variety of colors and styles of undershirts with Dual Dry technology. This unique innovation allows you to stay clean and odor free all day long. The short sleeve style is perfect for layering under your work clothes or wearing alone with a pair of shorts at the gym.

2.  Hold Your Haunches Booty Patootie Bootcut

Meet your new favorite pants. These machine-washable pants have a layer of medical grade compression sewn in to visually lift and firm your backside. Made of nylon and spandex, these pants look great with flats, heels, and sneakers. You won’t ever want to take them off!

3.  Valleau Apparel The Hammock in Snake Black

Though this pretty sports bra from Valleau Apparel is ideal for the gym, it also makes a great layering piece. Wear it with a backless dress or your favorite tank to add a little interest to a basic outfit. The shimmery finish elevates this bra from the basic black. Bonus: the front offers full coverage and has thick straps so you won’t have to worry about any discomfort while you exercise.

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All moms are busy, whether you are a stay-at-home mom or you work outside your home it can be difficult to work in a healthy home cooked meal for your family. The idea of making a quick, healthy, kid friendly meal can be a puzzle. What usually happens is that you think you’ve prepared a tasty and healthy meal for your kids, but they crinkle their nose, refuse to eat and you order pizza. You wish you could be a Chef Ramsey in the kitchen and whip up a delicious and healthy meal but as hard as you have tried, you just don’t have the talent.  

You have the right ingredients in your pantry right now to make a delicious meal. You can do this, go to your pantry and find a carbohydrate. This can be beans, tortillas, bread, pasta, or potatoes. Next, go to your refrigerator and find a  protein, any meat or if you are a vegetarian, any protein replacement. It’s okay if you do not have any protein. Your goal is to cook a meal that is quick but still nutritious; your family will survive one meal without protein. Next, find a vegetable; it could be onions, tomatoes, green peppers, lettuce or any other veggie. If you cannot find a vegetable, look to see if you have any sauces, soups or broths such as tomato sauce, salsa, pasta sauce, tomato soup, or vegetable broth.

Getting your kids involved will make them feel like they have a role in making the meal. Let them pick the ingredients and see what you can come up with together. Your kids will be more willing to try the food knowing that they chose the ingredients.

This task may still seem daunting so here are examples of quick meals you can prepare. You can add or remove any ingredient to make it your own, there are no rules.

Personal Pizza

Carbohydrate: Tortillas (such as flour or corn), sandwich thins, or bagels

Vegetable: Tomato paste or sauce, pizza sauce, or marinara sauce (you may need to add some spices such as garlic or Italian seasoning if you use plain tomato paste or sauce), black olives, peppers

Protein: Whatever meat you have such as pepperoni, ground meat, chicken, or ham

Cheese

Directions: Cook meat. Place sauce, meat and cheese on pizza. Place pizza in oven for 10-15 minutes at 350 degrees. Eat and enjoy!

Salsa Mac

Carbohydrate: Pasta (any, you can even combine different ones)

Vegetable: Salsa or tomato sauce, diced tomatoes, crushed tomatoes (you may need to add some Mexican seasoning when using unseasoned tomatoes)

Protein: Any ground meat or chicken

Optional: cheese, low fat sour cream, avocados

Directions: Cook meat. Prepare Pasta. Combine ingredients and add optional items. Eat and enjoy!

Mexican Casserole

Carbohydrate: Refried Beans, corn or flour tortillas, or rice

Protein: ground meat or chicken

Vegetable: Here you can use salsa, diced tomatoes, tomato soup, crushed tomatoes, and tomato paste (again, you may want to use Mexican seasonings if using unseasoned tomatoes)

Optional toppings: cheese, low fat sour cream, crumbled corn or tortilla chips on top

Directions: Cook meat. Place a layer of carbohydrates, meat, and your vegetable in casserole dish and cook for 25 minutes at 350 degrees. Add optional toppings and serve.

Sandwich Wraps

Carbohydrate: Tortillas (such as flour or corn)

Protein: deli meat, cooked chicken or steak, or any other cooked meat

Vegetable: lettuce, onions, tomatoes, spinach, avocados or green, red or yellow peppers (any vegetable can go here)

Optional: cheese, mayonnaise, low fat sour cream, salad dressing

This meal is your creation. You can prepare these in your kitchen or you can create a sandwich bar so the kids can create their own wrap.

Noodle Soup

Carbohydrate: Pasta, rice, or packaged rice noodles

Protein: cooked chicken or beef

Vegetable: diced carrots, peas, corn, or celery (pick your child’s favorite veggie)

Vegetable: vegetable broth (can use chicken or beef broth in place of vegetable broth)

Directions: Prepare pasta, rice or rice noodles, drain. Bring broth to a boil. Combine meat, carbohydrate and vegetables in broth. Season with salt or other seasonings as needed. Serve.

These are just a few quick meals that you can make when short on time. There are hundreds of choices in your kitchen right now… it just takes a little creativity from your taste buds! 

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(BPT) – Any mom will tell you there are never enough hours in the day to “do it all.” Research indicates working moms spend 10 hours more a week multitasking than working dads – making useful, efficient tools Mom’s secret weapon for getting more done.

“I multitask from the moment the sun comes up,” says Brittany Bailey, busy mother, wife, DIY renovator and the blogger behind PrettyHandyGirl.com. “Shaving mere minutes off my day-to-day routine lets me cross more tasks off my to-do list and spend more time with my family.”

Whether yours is a family of three or 13, try these multi-functional tools to keep up around the house:

Family room

Whether you’re playing educational games with the kids, catching up on emails during nap time or creating a new chill-out music mix, multitasking moms can tackle all of this with a tablet or smartphone – without taking up a lot of floor space in the family room. Refreshing your device with new apps just for the kids can help keep things calm for the long family road trip or the short wait at the dentist’s office, too.

Kitchen

Any mom knows keeping the kitchen tidy is a formidable task, with snacks, baking ingredients and trinkets that don’t make it into the junk drawer. Consider recycling heavy-duty glass jars for extra storage without adding clutter to your countertop. Empty glass jars look chic on display, but also are hard at work when filled with sugar, cookies or even knick-knacks like keys or change. Because you can see into the jars, you’ll always know what’s inside.

Bathroom

Dad wants a powerful showerhead but Mom wants a hand shower to spray down messy tots, so who wins? Parents can end the debate with the Delta In2ition shower with H2Okinetic technology. This two-in-one shower system simultaneously offers the comfort of water streaming from a showerhead and a hand shower and uses an internal system to control the droplet size of the water to create the feeling of more water than a standard shower. The embedded hand shower offers the flexibility to accomplish other tasks such as bathing children, washing pets and cleaning the shower. When not in use, it easily slips back into place on the shower head.

Utilizing two-in-one tools around the house can help busy moms stay ahead of the curve and reserve time for what really matters: quality time with family. If she’s lucky, maybe she can even carve out some of that precious time just for her.

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With the warm days of summer winding down and the kids heading back to school, it’s time to get back to your healthy habits before winter hits! However, for many busy moms, maintaining your own health and wellness routine can be a challenge.

Luckily, there’s a new and free app to help you get back and stay on track. The WannaBeWell app from the Council for Responsible Nutrition (CRN) Foundation’s Life…supplemented campaign helps people commit to their personal wellness routines by offering motivation, reminders and healthy inspiration while on-the-go. The app is a comprehensive wellness resource that educates and activates those who are looking to lead a healthier lifestyle. It encompasses the three pillars of health, Healthy Diet + Supplements + Exercise.

The app allows you to create your own personalized Wellness Coach by choosing from a roster of customizable characters who deliver daily motivational and educational messages to keep you moving towards a healthier lifestyle. The Wellness Coach acts as a personal trainer in your pocket. Other key features of the app include setting up reminders for you and your family to take — or restock — your dietary supplements; and receiving “Healthy Mission” tasks  from your virtual  Wellness Coach who rewards you with  trophies for accomplishing them. 

“The WannaBeWell app is filled with customizable features that will help people get and stay committed to their personal wellness routine no matter where they are,” said Judy Blatman, senior vice president, communications, CRN. “It’s an at-your-fingertips health and wellness resource that brings convenience to the crucial wellness decisions we make on a daily basis.” 

And for each WannaBeWell app download, a $1 donation (up to $13,500) will be made to Vitamin Angels to help reduce child mortality worldwide by connecting infants and children under five with vital nutrients.

Additionally, when looking to get your health back on track, it is also important to know where you are starting. The My Wellness Scorecard is a free online quiz that lets you know if you’re an AlphaWELL, an OhWELL, or somewhere in between.  Your assessment offers actionable ways for you to improve your health and simple tips to create your own personal wellness regimen, focusing on healthy diet choices, vitamins and other supplements, and exercise.

Visit lifesupplemented.org to learn more! 

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